Discover how you can overcome these objections so you can feel more confident in your body.

Discover how you can overcome these objections so you can feel more confident in your body 

“It won’t work for me, I’m just not beautiful”

“I don’t have time”

“What will people think of me?”

“When I lose 20 pounds or look the way I want to look, then I can do it”

These are the most common objections middle-aged women have about feeling beautiful and confident in their bodies.

Let’s break ‘em down, so that you can overcome them and feel more beautiful and confident starting TODAY….. 

Objection #1: “It won’t work for me, I’m just not beautiful”

How to overcome this objection:
Don’t take the beauty industry’s definition or what other people think is beautiful. Decide for yourself what beauty is and then start calling out the beauty you see in yourself and others!


Step #1

Understand the stories and beliefs you currently have about beauty, specifically what makes a woman beautiful.

Your answer to that will help you see what is influencing those beliefs and which of those beliefs you want to let go of.

Step #2 Write your own definition of beauty 

Spend time writing down or visualizing what feels beautiful to you. 

You can use the following writing prompts to help you get started:

I feel beautiful when…..

What makes me beautiful is….

Keep this new definition of beauty handy. Maybe you want to write it on a sticky note and place it on your mirror, in your closet or near your computer.

Objection #2: “I don’t have time”

How to breakthrough this objection:
Complete a time audit. 

Track your time for a week and notice if there are any activities you can stop doing so that you can make time for your self-love + self-care commitments.

Objection #3: “What will people think of me?”

How to overcome this objection:
Remind yourself that it’s not vain to want to feel beautiful and that what other people think of you is actually out of your control. 

Focus on what you can control: your actions.

Objection #4: “When I lose 20 pounds or look the way I want to look, then I can do it”

How to breakthrough this objection:
Compassionately check in with yourself about where the desire to lose weight is coming from and if it’s something you feel pressured into doing from diet culture or messages from those around you. 

If you wish to lose weight find ways to embrace your body just as it is as you’re changing your habits. 

REMEMBER: Your body is a vessel that’s here to carry you through your life. It’s the ONLY one you’ll ever get and it’s incredible and beautiful just the way it is. 

Introducing…..[NEW + FREE] 10 Days to Feeling Beautiful Workbook

Helping women transform the way they think and feel about themselves is my work and my life’s purpose and my own journey in learning to love my body + beauty inspired this creation.

And now I’m so excited to share it with YOU!!!

Designed to help middle-aged women rediscover their beauty and confidence in 10 days flat!


Inside this FREE workbook you’ll learn how to:
Reframe the thoughts you have about your beauty + body that are affecting your confidence

Uncover your unique gifts through a fun exercise that will boost your confidence

Make friends with your reflection so you own and see your unique beauty

Let’s do this. Ladies…are you ready? 

Grab your favorite pen, journal and Click here to download your FREE 10 Days to Feeling Beautiful Workbook. 


Hey I’m Argentina Leyva, Boudoir Photographer + Confidence Coach

I’ve helped more than 3,000 women shed their distorted perception of their bodies and see themselves as the amazing, confident, desirable women they are.

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